Advice to My Younger Self: 10 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Younger Self Before Starting My Journey Into The Music Industry

If I could turn back in time (sorry I had to 😂) and sit down with my younger self, eager to embark on a music career, there are a few key pieces of advice I'd share—wisdom born from years of experience, growth, and a whole lot of singing. 

Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been on this journey for a while, these insights might just resonate with you too.

1. Embrace Your Unique Voice

When I first started singing, I was obsessed with sounding like my favorite artists. I wanted to hit every note just like them, match their tone, and capture their essence. 

But here's the thing: your voice is your fingerprint in the world of music. It’s what makes you stand out. 

Don’t be afraid to explore and embrace your unique sound, even if it doesn’t fit the mold. Your individuality is your greatest asset.

2. Vocal Health Is Non-Negotiable

When you're young and full of energy, it’s easy to take your vocal health for granted. 

I learned the hard way that pushing your voice beyond its limits without proper care can lead to serious setbacks. 

Incorporating vocal exercises like straw phonation early on could have saved me a lot of strain and stress. 

The Singing / Straw™ wasn’t around when I first started, but if it were, it would have been my go-to tool for maintaining vocal efficiency and reducing tension.

3. Surround Yourself with Supportive People

The music industry can be tough, and having a strong support system is crucial. I was fortunate to find a community of like-minded artists who lifted me up and pushed me forward. 

If I could give my younger self any advice, it would be to actively seek out those people who believe in you and your talent. 

Whether it's a vocal coach, fellow musicians, or even a supportive friend, surround yourself with those who inspire and challenge you.

4. Never Stop Learning

There’s always something new to learn, no matter how experienced you become. I would tell my younger self to stay curious and open to new techniques, genres, and styles. 

This mindset eventually led me to create The Singing / Straw, a tool that represents the evolution of my own learning journey. 

It’s a reminder that there’s always room for innovation and improvement in your craft.

5. Practice Patience and Persistence

Success doesn’t happen overnight. There will be challenges, setbacks, and moments of self-doubt. 

But every step, no matter how small, brings you closer to your goals. I’d remind my younger self that patience and persistence are key. 

Keep pushing forward, even when the path seems unclear. Every practice session, every performance, every failure—they all contribute to your growth as an artist.

6. Take Risks and Be Bold

If there’s one thing I wish I had done more of when I was younger, it’s taking risks. 

Whether it’s experimenting with a new genre, putting yourself out there for a gig you feel unqualified for, or starting a new business venture, like I did with Songbird Studios, taking bold steps can lead to incredible opportunities. 

Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone—it’s where the magic happens.

7. Balance Passion with Practicality

Pursuing a career in music is a beautiful, passion-driven journey, but it’s also important to stay grounded in reality. 

I’d advise my younger self to balance dreams with practical steps—like honing business skills, understanding the industry, and finding ways to sustain a livelihood through music. 

Passion will get you far, but practicality will help you stay the course.

8. Believe in Your Vision

Starting Songbird Studios was one of the most rewarding decisions I’ve ever made, but it wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t believed in my vision. 

To my younger self, I’d say: trust your instincts, even when others don’t see the path as clearly as you do. 

Your vision is your guide—hold onto it, nurture it, and let it drive your actions.

9. Prioritize Mental and Emotional Well-being

The journey of a musician is deeply emotional, and it’s easy to get caught up in the highs and lows. 

I would remind my younger self to prioritize mental and emotional well-being. Take time to rest, reflect, and recharge. 

Surround yourself with positivity and seek help when needed. 

A healthy mind is just as important as a healthy voice.

10. Enjoy the Journey

Finally, I would tell myself to enjoy every moment of this journey. This may sound cliche, but it’s true!

The performances, the practices, the late-night songwriting sessions—they’re all part of the adventure.

Don’t get so caught up in chasing success that you forget to savor the process. 

Each stage of your career is a chapter in your story, and it’s worth cherishing.

The Singing / Straw™: A Tool I Wish I Had

If I could gift my younger self something, it would be The Singing / Straw. This tool is the culmination of years of learning and experience. 

It’s designed to help singers, speakers, and vocalists of all levels achieve vocal efficiency and reduce tension. Whether you’re warming up before a gig, cooling down after a long session, or maintaining vocal health on the road, the Singing / Straw can make a world of difference.

Straw phonation, the technique behind this tool, is simple yet powerful. 

It’s a semi-occluded vocal tract exercise that helps your vocal folds vibrate more efficiently, making singing feel lighter and easier. 

It’s discreet, portable, and incredibly effective—everything I wish I had when I was starting out.

As I reflect on my journey, I’m grateful for the experiences that have shaped me and the tools that now help me share my passion with others. 

If you’re just starting out or if you’re looking to take your vocal journey to the next level, I hope this advice resonates with you. 

Remember, your voice is your unique gift to the world—nurture it, believe in it, and enjoy every step of your musical adventure.

Right now, we’re offering a special Back-to-School discount just for you! Use code Back2School at checkout to get 15% off any Singing / Straw™ set or product. It’s the perfect opportunity to grab your Singing / Straw™ and start the school year off on the right note.

Your not-so-basic-vocal coach,

Whitney Nichole